March 11th, 2009
|peach_blossom09||11:59 am - new to D/s, bdsm, and this community|
i have a relationship with a wonderful and understanding Master. we met online and He introduced me to D/s and bdsm. i am naturally submissive, so it wasn't a suprise to learn about this unique lifestyle. i was fasinated and craving to learn more about it.He showed me many ways and emotions that i could feel thru trying new techniques to turn me on. we talk about once a week on the phone and chat online everyday. i have fallen deeply in love with Him in a very short time. its hard not to be able to be physically together, but we plan to meet this summer. i look forward to many more experiences with Him... i love to make Him happy and give myself to Him completely. my dream is to wear His collar...
if anyone would like to share some advice or experiences just leave me a message or comment. thank You
Current Mood: cheerful
So, do you want to go right into a 24/7 relationship or do you want to try bedroom play first?
Just from life experience (BDSM or no) - be cautious of falling in love fast. Our body chemicals are very very powerful, and sometimes, those chemicals can ofuscate good judgment.
I find that there are good Masters out there. There are also ones who talk a lot about being good Masters, but don't know how to take care of themselves or others - emotionally and physically. All I am saying is make many judgments and go slow - being submissive doesn't mean he has to lead your brain too - that at least, should be yours.
thanks for the advice
our relationship is complicated...we are both married to different people and have children. our vanilla marriages led us to eachother. a 24/7 relationship would be an option for us in the future...i know i shouldn't fall in love too fast, but we have a very special connection that makes it difficult not to...we live quite a distance away from eachother, which makes it hard, but not impossible.
i understand what you are saying about good Masters, but from what i have read, He shows all the qualities that make a good Master.
He has introduced this lifestyle to me, but i have always had kinky fantacies and serving makes me happy...thanks for sharing!