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March 9th, 2009

04:50 pm
soooo, I'm a 24 year old girl and latley I have been kinda well to put it nicely "slutting around." I have been trying to find that something to fill the void (so to speak) any way some event happened and I realised that I really want to be dominated... thing is I don't really know that much about it... now before you say "hey search the net" I can't due to the fact I moved to Dubai and sites like that are blocked by the goverment (very 1984.) So if any one has any tips or ideas for a newbie I would really appreciate it...

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March 2nd, 2009

08:19 pm - Intro
I'm not new to being a sub, but this is the first time I've attempted to talk about my desires.  Before I begin talking on this community, I'd like to know if it is still active.  So if anyone is here, please either leave a comment or 'friend' me.  I'll be writing about my issues on my normal blog as well as in groups.

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December 8th, 2008

12:16 pm - Names
Master wants me to choose a nickname for myself. He has previously called me pet but now wants something more personal. Im having a bit of trouble. Any suggestions or help?

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November 28th, 2008

08:39 pm - A Sensual Celestial Odyssey
Slithering around Saturn’s rings


the tail

of a comet.

Discovering Uranus

Probing a black hole

Suckling from the Milky Way.

Lets rediscover !

Launch into a new dawn !

Hide away , nestled together on the darkside of the moon.

Stellar satiation

Covered in stardust

Burning with solar flare.

Perversion is tasting your wormhole.

Gravity forces me down on you,

before I shoot a trail of fallen stars on your face and heated orbs.
Current Mood: gratefulgrateful

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August 16th, 2008

02:01 pm - a question about birth control
i was wondering if any other subs had any thoughts or experiences about birth control?

i am getting the patch and was courious if any of you have had any strange side effects?
maybe what you have used?
if you have used birth control  have you noticed any weight gain ? what about your moods ?

i am a little nervous about using it because i  have heard horror stories about  very bad mood swings and weight gain , but want an extra measure of protection against getting pregnant besides just using condoms.

thanks for any help

i did x-post to another group

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August 9th, 2008

08:00 am - Subspace
My long time wife and I have recently decided to go 24/7 and kick up our bondage play more than a few notches.  I am looking for a really good article on achieving "subspace", or really good examples of how you personally get there and how you feel when you are there.



Probably heavily cross posted

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July 8th, 2008

11:29 pm - hello

Hello , new to LJ and exploring. I have been a slave for about 14 years and love to talk with others involved in BDSM.

Current Location: home
Current Mood: curiouscurious

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June 29th, 2008

09:57 am - Dark Times...
 I used to post here long ago, and have recently returned to blogging.  I am a submissive, but during my years away, I lost myself and tried something terrible.  Asked to by a man I was seeing... I dominated.  But it wasn't he was my Master, and asked me to do so.  He was just.. a guy.  And asked.  And I was so lost, I tried.  Poorly.  I was awful.  It was awful... so not me.  How could I punish someone, when I deserve to be punished?  How could I make someone beg, when all I wanted was to feel the ache of hardwood under my knees and shaking, pleading words falling from my bitten, swollen lips?  How could I whip someone, when I would do Anything to feel that pain and experience the ecstacy of the combination of fear and shame and love and lust and adrenalin and submissiveness and pure sexual energy?  No, it was all wrong.  I will never again put a crop on my hand.  Well, not unless a master tells me to... 

The experience at least taught me something.  We all have purposes in life, and (though I like to think I have many) one of mine is to serve.  Serve and serve wholly a deserving, devestating, strong Master.  It is a skill, submissiveness.  It is an art.  It is a pleasure, a release, a necessity.  To me, anyway.  Does this make sense?  I have no submissive friends, so I fear I'm alone in these feelings occasionally.  I do hope I make sense, and possibly that some others feel a connection to this compulsion, this need I have.

As I've mentioned, I have no submissive friends, though many wonderful submissive women and men have crossed my path.  I must say, they are some of the most beautiful people in the world.  Naturally, not always as beautiful as their Masters ;), but truly wonderful beings.  I feel such a connection to those who wish to be dominated like myself - though, the connection pales in the shadow of the connection one can feel to a great Master, yes?  :) 

Just some words I needed to get out there.  I hope all are well!


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April 13th, 2008

03:21 pm - Yesterday was ...!
Intense in a way that erased a lot of the words, so I'll just try sketch it out before the images fade, too.

It started when you came back to bed, ready to play. You were in your black slip. You rolled onto your stomach, signaling a desire to take a passive, submissive role. I attached your wrist cuffs and clasped your hands together behind your back. Then I tucked the little, wired-remote bullet vibe between your legs and bound your thighs together with a belt. Then your ankles. I rolled you onto your side, facing away from me. Admired the curve of your hips, the swell of your ass, the contrast of the black leather straps against your creamy thighs and narrow ankles.

I knelt behind you on the bed, stroking your hair, face and lips, fondling your tits through the slip. (I love how drawing your hands behind your back thrusts your chest forward.) And I teased your bound hands with my cock, letting you clutch and stroke it before pulling away. It was fun to watch your hands blindly grope and flex, searching for my hard on. Read more...Collapse )

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March 26th, 2008

08:30 pm
just joined the community and i'm looking around trying not to step on anyone...i am a sub and ive been interested in the lifestyle longer then i can remember but only in the last few months or so have i been able to explore what its really like to be a part of...i am not just a passerby i love the life and want to live it....i would consider it a great honor if anyone wanted to at least talk to me and let me see how i would fit in and what i can offer.  what i can say is i dont play games and i give every part of me to someone who truly wants it. 

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