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October 28th, 2009

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07:46 am - Missing it . . .
I am a submissive who is not currently in a D/s relationship.  I am a lesbian who in outside life is very feminist and outspoken but I miss the lifestyle terribly as I have found that it is great to be someone different for a while. Does anyone else have a similar story or advice on how to fill this gap that I have created for myself?
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Date:October 30th, 2009 08:24 pm (UTC)
I keep seeing your post, and wanted to say hello. I hope you find your someone. yes...feminism and D/s are not exactly bedfellows. But everything is possible! Do you like Pat Califia?

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Date:November 1st, 2009 11:36 pm (UTC)
I'm a feminist and sexually submissive, and I've seen many other women on LJ who are the same way. Sexual dominance, in some men (I identify as mostly-striaght) is something I find extremely arousing. I no longer waste my time worrying that this tendency means there's something wrong with me. I don't think men are "better" than women. I simply find that some modes of presentation and behavior in men "do the trick" for me.

Getting back to you, in particular--I believe there are also many lesbian feminists in D/s relationships. While some feminists think that one can't be both submissive and feminist, many others disagree strongly!
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Date:April 16th, 2010 03:11 am (UTC)
you should join fetlife! There you can meet people in your area who have similar interests...you'll be alright sweetheart. Don't give up hope!

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